Merasa Sendiri? Ini 20 Quotes Penyemangat Bagi Para Jomblo

Nggak semua orang bisa menemukan jodoh mereka dengan mudah. Ada yang masih susah melupakan mantan, ada yang masih trauma dengan hubungan sebelumnya, ada yang sedang sibuk mengejar karier, bahkan ada juga yang terlalu bersemangat mencari hingga melewatkan 'calon' yang sebenarnya memperhatikan setiap hari. Ada banyak alasan yang membuat seseorang tidak memiliki kekasih saat ini, baik itu disengaja maupun tidak disengaja. Bagi kamu yang juga sedang jomblo, don't worry! Being single is actually not bad.

Jomblo atau memilih untuk sendiri bisa berarti banyak hal, namun satu hal yang pasti adalah kamu bisa menikmati banyak hal dengan lebih bebas tanpa ada orang lain atau hubungan yang mengikatmu. Mungkin kamu terlalu sibuk untuk mengurusi hidup orang lain saat ini atau kamu sedang menikmati berjalan-jalan sendiri. Whatever it is, it's totally okay to be single!

Meski jomblo terasa menyenangkan, tentu akan ada masa dimana kamu merasa terkucilkan, insecure, dan sendirian, terutama ketika teman-teman disekelilingmu sudah memiliki kekasih atau bahkan sudah menikah. Tidak perlu berkecil hati, karena pasangan akan datang kepadamu di waktu yang tepat. In the meanwhile, di bawah ini Her World mengumpulkan berbagai quotes penyemangat dari tokoh terkenal, film, hingga lagu bagi kamu yang sedang jomblo, as a reminder that being single is something you should cherish! Check it out.

(Baca Juga: Ini 4 Alasan Kamu Sering Merasa Tidak Nyaman Menjomblo)

(Quotes penyemangat bagi para jomblo. Foto: Dok. monkeybusinessimages/iStock)

1. “It is better to lock up your heart with a merciless padlock, than to fall in love with someone who doesn't know what they mean to you.” - Michael Bassey Johnson

2. "Love yourself. It is important to stay positive because beauty comes from the inside out." - Jenn Proske

3. "Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers." - Jorge Luis Borges

4. "True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen." - Francois de La Rochefoucauld

5. "A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.” - Mandy Hale

6. "Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you." - Loretta Young

7. "The thing about being single is you should cherish it. Because in a week or a lifetime of being alone, you only get one moment. One moment, when you're not tied up in a relationship with anyone. One moment when you stand on your own." - How To Be Single (2016)

8. "One can't be betrayed if one has no people." - The Usual Suspects (1995)

9. "Sometimes it's better to be alone, nobody can hurt you." - Hercules (1997)

10. “Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.” - Sex and The City (1998)

11. "If one is not enjoying one's present, there isn't a great deal to suggest that the future should be any better." - A Single Man (2009)

12. "It's really nice to be on your own. There is no one tying you down, you listen to music whenever you like, go for a walk whenever you like, have a chat whenever you like." - The Lobster (2015)

13.  “I've been having a good time, and there wasn't even a man in the room!" - The Golden Girls (1985)

14. "Ladies, you have to be strong and independent, and remember, don't get mad- get everything!" - The First Wives Club (1996)

15. "Learn your way around loneliness. Make a map of it. Sit with it, for once in your life. Welcome to the human experience. But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilled yearnings.” - Eat Pray Love (2010)

16. "I'm young and I love to be young

      I'm free and I love to be free

      To live my life the way I want

      To say and do whatever I please" - You Don't Know Me (Lesley Gore)

17. "I'm better by myself

      I'm better when there's no you in my life

      You're no good for my health (Health)

      You're no good for my troubled state of mind" - Better By Myself (Hey Violet) 

18. "I'm gonna put my body first

       And love me so hard 'til it hurts

      Gonna love myself, no, I don't need anybody else" - Love Myself (Hailee Steinfeld)

19. "I was born to run

        I don't belong to anyone

        Oh, no I don't need to be loved by you" - Midnight Sky (Miley Cyrus)

20. "Aren't you the guy who tried to hurt me with the word ‘goodbye’?

      Though it took some time to survive you

      I'm better on the other side" - Don’t Start Now (Dua Lipa)

(Baca Juga: Lama Menjomblo, Begini Cara Mudah Punya Pacar!)

Nah, itu adalah quotes penyemangat bagi kamu yang sedang jomblo. Don't worry, be happy singles!